Ralph Higgins

Ralph Higgins
color pencil sketch by Gayle Higgins

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"If you do not take an interest in the affairs of your government, then you are doomed to live under the rule of fools."

– Plato

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Saturday, August 21, 2010

Who's Keeping Score?

Eighteen years! Holy cow! That’s longer than some people have been alive. But compared to many of my friends, it’s not very long at all. Oh yes…I’m talking about Gayle’s and my anniversary. Of course, this was not the first marriage for either of us, but the rule is that past marriages don’t count in the total score, so I guess our kids won’t have to worry about a golden anniversary party for us. Actually, neither of us can believe we made it this long.

They say that married men live longer than single men. Maybe it just seems longer. But it would be interesting to examine the reasons men walk off the stage first and the role of marriage in the process. Could it be that our wives won’t let us die as long as there’s garbage to take out and a leaky faucet to fix? But despite their efforts, we men check out first. 

My dad enjoyed his retirement villa, which was loaded with widows. Dad was Joe Cool and dapper at almost 90 years old; a true inspiration to my brother Tom and me. Tom says that if Dad spotted a woman he liked in the cafeteria, he would hit her metal chair with his cane. And he would hit it hard. When old ladies are startled they make a “hooting” sound. In one pass through the cafeteria Dad turned the place into what sounded like a horse barn full of owls with Tourette syndrome. He evidently had a lot of favorites.


Gayle and I had a great dinner tonight at a rustic lodge located high in the mountains and on the bank of a beautiful lake. It was fantastic. Great environment. Excellent food. And an unbelievable view of the lake and surrounding mountains. There are several places like this hidden away in these hills. Most have cabins with reservations years in advance with unique lodges and good food.

It was a beautiful trip to and from, although I almost hit one deer, five squirrels and a partridge in a pear tree. Up here in the Sierras you worry more about animals than traffic, so I drive like an old guy.

Time to wind down and get back in training for another year. Gayle is yelling that I forgot to bring the garbage can back in. That should give me another week or two. I’m keeping two leaky faucets as back-ups. As long as something is broken, Gayle will keep feeding me.


4 comments:

  1. Happy Anniversary you two! I just hope you didn't waste time at that beautiful lake by not dangling a line in the water. That sounded like a golden opportunity for a fish fry! May this year be another great year for a great relationship.

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  2. Happy Anniversary Ralph and Gayle. Know you'll have many more. Still hoping to get out there in the fall.
    Finally have a contract on the giant albatross. That means the old house is finally on the way to being sold. That clears one of the problems for the trip. The other one, we'll just see in the next few months.
    Love to you both!

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  3. Roger -

    Many thanks.

    As for fishing, it would be hard to beat Halibut fishing at Carmichael's place in Alaska, but that particular lodge will cook your catch, so maybe we should have planned to get there early to try our luck.

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  4. Malcolm -

    Glad to hear you may be getting the albatross off your back and we sure hope we can get together sometime during your trip. And "thanks" for your kind words.

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